We
Are Perfect Now
In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus made a
statement about us, a statement that should be the basis for all our
interpersonal relationships.
Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is
perfect. (Matthew 5:48)
Traditionally, Latter-day Saints have interpreted that scripture as
referring to the future: Jesus was giving us our ultimate goal.
That is a true interpretation, for being perfect as God is perfect
is our ultimate goal.
There is, however, another
interpretation of being perfect, one that can help us improve our
relationships with others. Notice that Jesus said "Be ye
therefore perfect", as if he were talking in the present tense. How
can we be perfect now? Don't we all, as Paul said, commit sins? (Romans
3:23) Yes, we do all commit sins and will continue to commit sins
throughout our life. But, we are perfect now, for the Greek word which
means "perfect" is teleios, which means full
or complete. It does not mean "without sin".
What does it mean to be complete
now? I think that from God's viewpoint it could mean to have everything
necessary for us to return to him, for his purpose is for us to obtain
Eternal Life. Think about this for a moment.
Small
Children are Perfect
When we were small children, we had
everything we needed to enter the Celestial Kingdom. The Savior had
provided the resurrection through his atonement, and he had cleansed us
from mistakes we made while not being accountable for our actions. As
small children, we were complete or perfect.
Adults
are Perfect
As we became accountable for our
actions, we sinned and became separated from God. However, even then, and
even now, we are complete, meaning we have everything we need to reach the
Celestial Kingdom. The Savior provided the resurrection, and he provided
the way for our sins to be removed. He is giving us the unique
opportunities for growth that we each need. We have been given agency to
allow us to make the choices that will allow the Savior's atonement to
enter our lives and bring us back to the Celestial Kingdom. Yes, we have
everything we need to return to our Father in Heaven. Whether we use
those things in ways that will bring us back to our Father is up to us.
Because we have everything we need, we are complete or perfect.
Effect
of Our Being Perfect
If I consider you as being a perfect
person, not a person without sin but a person who has everything you need
to return to your Father in Heaven, I will not be judgmental or critical
of you. I will not speak unkindly to you. For, how could I do those things
to a perfect person. Instead, I will consider you and treat you as a child
of God. I will love you as Christ loves you, and I will trust you. If I
really accept you as the complete person that you are, my relationship
with you will change and will become the "Zion" relationship
that Jesus wants us to have. If I consider you as being a perfect person,
then I will be motivated by love, and I will begin to fully live
the Gospel of Jesus Christ.
In fact, I believe that until I consider
you as being a complete person, I can not fully live the Gospel of Jesus
Christ. Until non-judgmental love becomes the basis of my
relationship with you, I will be using obedience as the basis of
that relationship, and obedience by itself will never, in my
opinion, bring me to the point where I will become cleansed by the
Savior's atonement. This is because obedience without love is always
accompanied by guilt, and guilt is negative and destructive.
Obedience is, of course, important and necessary in our lives, but it is a
stepping stone to love as the source of our motivation, rather than being
an end-goal.